2009年11月5日星期四

"The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women"

    MaiMai News - February 22, 2008 - MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice"
guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed
to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested
in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose
the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to
ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success
with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN
IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and
reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change
that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best
to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are
always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval
and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED
at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around
and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and
had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens...

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your
attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity,
and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.

To read the other top six mistakes you can make with women you can go to http://DoubleYourDating101.Blogspot.com
It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming
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level smoothly and easily.

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